Category: Dealing With Loss

1 Peter 5:6-7 (NKJV) 6 Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, 7 casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.

I remember when my niece, who was just a little girl, fell out of a moving car and into the road. After, as her daddy was holding her in his arms, she said “DADDY”, for the last time. A short time later she was gone.

I cannot describe the feeling I had, seeing her little body on the bed in the hospital ER, laying there; No movement and no life.

I remember her little stories that she would tell us about how her daddy would brush her hair at night before bedtime. Oh, how she loved that time. Our little sweet niece was gone and there was a hole in our hearts.

When my teenage nephew was in a terrible car accident a few years ago, he actually died for a short time as they removed him from the car. As they laid him on the stretcher they were able to revive him and get a heartbeat again.

They took him by helicopter to the hospital, bleeding from the brain, with several other severe injuries. Doctors said there was no way he would make it through the night. He is still alive and thriving today.

Why does one live and one not make it? This is a question that many people have.

Seasons of life can be devastating, shocking and can seem unbearable. People go through extremely difficult things daily all over the world. We just don’t know it, unless they are friends or family members.

Along with losing a loved one, there are other kinds of losses that can affect us greatly.

For example, divorce is a loss. The sudden ending of a longtime friendship is a loss. Unemployment is a loss. Miscarriage is a loss. Abortion is a loss, etc.

There are many kinds of losses that people go through that are very difficult to endure.

One of the things we need to remind ourselves of is that whatever loss we go through, life is not over. It is not the end for us. Yes, that loss is real, it is painful and we must accept it. But we must keep living.

God can and will bring healing to that emptiness, that pain, that suffering, and that unbearable feeling that you can’t go on. There are things in life that, as humans, we can not withstand on our own. And if we try to, we will lose.

Trying to withstand it on our own will open the door to misery, anger, bitterness, jealousy, envy, hurtfulness and being just plain nasty toward others. God did not create us to carry these burdens on our own.

We can try to blame Him for it, saying “Why, God? Why did You let this happen to me or to them?”. And we can be stubborn and push away from Him. But it will not help bring the healing that we need. It will not help us or the situation. It will just bring more pain.

We will never get past this on our own. Healing comes from within, and if we don’t let it out and talk about it, there will be no healing taking place. Instead, there will just be a constant ache in our heart every day.

God loves you and wants to help. Reach out to Him today. Get the help He wants to give you.

Pastor Curt & Pastor Ellie

Seven Seas Ministries
P.O. Box 272
Bradford, RI 02808

401-315-0902